Tag: #attraction

  • Nature vs culture

    It’s a difficult one… I know (& you know from past posts) that with dopamine, the thrill is in the chase. This probably goes for all humans. So it’s “objective” & is ”natural”.

    But, more subjectively, I have found that usually, when I know the feeling is reciprocated, it intensifies. So is “subjective”, probably falling under “cultural” influence.

    So will attraction, should you go by what your body tells you, due to dopamine release, or what cultural tells you, when you’re more inclined when you think the feeling is mutual.

  • Tinder

    It disgusts me that the way my generation meets their significant other is through a dating app (probably tinder).

    It is the height of technology social-ness,& offensively shallow.

    Not that any of my readers are intrigued in what I have to say (of course you are, you wouldn’t read this blog if not) I am not just looking for a good looking PIC, but some form of emotional connection.