Tag: #love

  • Value

    From my previous role as a fashion developer, I’m accustomed to evaluating garments and their properties through a cost-focused lens.

    With whole industries focusing on how to price the end product is a very important issue. What I had to do was build tech packs for manufacturers with the Mr fabrics or findings being called “tech packs”.

    However, the true value of a product can extend far beyond the item itself. In the industry I worked in, and within my role, the focus was firmly on the end product—yet my recent purchase of @ChristianLouboutin shoes, which I’ve written about time and time again, really clarified for me how value can be perceived in a completely different way.

    They paired effortlessly with my wardrobe and were incredibly easy to wear, everything you’d expect from a luxury trainer. However, considering they’re from @ChristianLouboutin, the quality has been a real disappointment.

    After less than a year, they’re already falling apart, a clear sign of poor craftsmanship. For a brand positioned at such a high level, and with a price tag that felt almost painful to justify, the reality simply hasn’t lived up to the expectation.

    However, a new, less superficial sense of value emerges here. Beyond simply being expensive, the pleasure and satisfaction of owning a pair of those iconic red soled trainers was incomparable far outweighing the initial pain of the purchase.

    Taking both perspectives into account, I’d say the overall value ultimately balances out….

    I’m Leuty has a pair of (highly damaged and scuffed) red sold trainers

  • Nature vs culture

    It’s a difficult one… I know (& you know from past posts) that with dopamine, the thrill is in the chase. This probably goes for all humans. So it’s “objective” & is ”natural”.

    But, more subjectively, I have found that usually, when I know the feeling is reciprocated, it intensifies. So is “subjective”, probably falling under “cultural” influence.

    So will attraction, should you go by what your body tells you, due to dopamine release, or what cultural tells you, when you’re more inclined when you think the feeling is mutual.

  • Loneliness

    Is a pandemic.

    No one will admit to it. No one even has the audacity to say that they are lonely.

    But we should realise this, that we are all alone, together.

    This is perhaps verging on a confession but I am probably lonely.

    Maybe me listing the things that make me not lonely may inspire you.

    Ok. Listing all the good things about me (join in) makes me seem vain. Just know loneliness is more common than you might think. & we all have good aspects about us.

  • Valentine’s Day

    With this big day coming up, there is a lot of focus on finding/having a significant other. Those who haven’t got one, probably feel so lonely, feeling unwanted, usually.

    I have noticed a trend in #love where people are looking to find their other. So below I have listed to an audiobook called “5 love languages” by Gary Chapman.

    Being a single lady, I hate the dating game. Although this book is targeted to those in relationship. So I am going to see if I can translate all the lessons taught in it. Because all of us want love…

    It ends with the 5 love languages, but goes into detail about each one throughout the book. I’ve done all the hard work, spending the time reading it & have condensed down without the jargon. So here are the five:

    1. Words of affirmation.

    2. Quality time.

    3. Getting gifts.

    4. Acts of service.

    5.Physical touch.

    That’s them in short, I will be going into detail about each one in future posts. That will keep me busy for the time being.

  • Tinder

    It disgusts me that the way my generation meets their significant other is through a dating app (probably tinder).

    It is the height of technology social-ness,& offensively shallow.

    Not that any of my readers are intrigued in what I have to say (of course you are, you wouldn’t read this blog if not) I am not just looking for a good looking PIC, but some form of emotional connection.

  • Romance

    Ok, this post isn’t about romance per se, but about a piece of work you’ll like, which is called “Romance”

    This is definitely an interesting collaboration, the work of Chris Craymer & a season by Mulberry.

    Me & my career we’re having a conversation & the subject of romance was touched. I don’t know why but I remembered this Chris Craymer project called “romance “ & I remembered I really liked it; it’s so humerus, but still witty.

    So to promote this collaboration, Mulberry used a lot of diversity in terms of models. it’s a good example of fashion expanding its horizons, making its brand more diverse.

    Just an example is that Tommy Hilfiger doing a collection for disabled people, you should check it out, it’s called “Adaptive”.

    On that subject a billion people globally that’s about 15% of the population are disabled in one way or another, so fashion should be the diversity rail laser.

    And some of the most common aspects of fashion design are inaccessible to people with certain disabilities.

    In this time of this collection, more brands have focussed on the issue of diversity. Even down to the small details like bigger zippers on zippers for hands that shake.

  • 15/3 – falling in love again

    One good thing that I am testing right now is rediscovering all the things I once loved, & falling in love with them again, just this time a bit difficult.

    I have tried things like music, books & films. Now I’m a little older I can rediscover them & rediscover then in a different way.

    I have kept a lot of books, DVDs & CDs. I must have really loved them in the first place, I now get to rediscover them again.

    Just an example; the movie i relearnt was the Hitch hickers Guide to the Galaxy, the music was Shy Child & a book which I once loved & plan on rereading is Jitterbug Perfume.

  • Anti-valentines day

    This year has been truly an awful year. For 1 there’s been a pandemic, & where is more personal is that I have no boyfriend (particularly pertinent around Valentine’s Day) So I’m going to use this time as a time to let those who I really care about know that they are important to me.Kind of like an anti-valentines day. A day to celebrate others & show how much they are appreciated (like my parents). I am like most people in the case that I love/hate my parents. I do love them cause they are my parents but they can really annoy me & know exactly how to get under my skin. So this vacation day I hope you follow my lead & remind your parents that you love them. Make the effort. I don’t know you but I do know they’ll appreciate it.