Focus

… basically, don’t.

There was a study where participants had to choose, say, a piece of art, which they preferred. The subjects were split into 2 groups & 1 group had to go with their gut feeling. The other had to take a more educated choice, why they made the choice they did.

A while after, they were asked how satisfied they were with their initial choice. Those who went with their gut feeling were more satisfied. Explained because when you make an educated choice, you’re blinded by the positives & don’t see the negatives. If you just relax & don’t put too much pressure on the decision, things tend to work out, some how.

When you’re really wanting something to happen, it only will when you stop focusing on it.